My x broke up with me about 4 months ago. He said he can not be monogamous, and that he was no longer attracted to me, but he had not cheated on me. He wanted to be friends at first. I wanted little contact. Then he wanted no contact for a while. We still kept emailing/texting, mostly on my part at first, but he always responded and we still say I love you, good night frequently and sometimes email all night. He said he would probably come back to me at the start of all this and sooner than expected. Then I freaked a bit and wanted no or little contact until he figured out what he wanted. It seems that he wants us to be together again, but he has not made a move towards this. I’m wondering if he is waiting for me to do that. He may be dating others now, I know he went on at least one date. I can’t stand the idea of seeing him with someone else, or of being around someone he has been with since our break up.

We were going to be married eventually and we looked at rings early in our R. I was not ready then. Long history/story. In the beginning, I begged him to stay and to work on our R and to get counseling. He said he had considered and thought about it a lot at that point also.
What is your opinion about this. Will this book help me?

Thank you.

Seriously though, you need to take responsibility for your relationships. Chances are an ex coming back into your life did not ruin an existing relationship – you did. This is some tough love I think you need to hear.

To anyone else who submits a comment, keep your comment related to the article otherwise it will be deleted. I’m unable to provide further free help, that’s what my reviews and articles are for. If you want assistance, I suggest you get the courses I recommend.

I am in a relationship from 4 years and was about to get married, till my ex came back into my life and my existing relationship got ruined. Now I do every possible thing to make up my existing relationship (Crying, bagging, running behind, calling thousand times), but nothing is working out.

Get some of the books I recommend and start improving yourself. The fact you said you’d kill yourself shows you need to work on your own life – forget a relationship altogether.

The programs I’ve reviewed help you do this. I seriously suggest you get a copy Bonnie. You’re emotionally killing yourself hoping to get a magical answer in a comment – that’ll never happen. The closest magic pill is getting the books I recommend. It depends if you really want him bad enough and want to end the pain.