Sometimes it takes a lot of effort to get your ex back. If the small things or communication isn’t helping your ex boyfriend or girlfriend come back to you, then other measures can be taken to fire up the relationship again. One of the techniques that should never be overlooked is using “mind games”. Mind games can be effective to get your ex back when used with care.
When you think of mind games, you don’t want to consider manipulating your ex or hurting them. This won’t help to win them back but could cause damage to your personal relationships. You want to make sure the mind games are a simple way of telling your partner that you still love them and are interested in them. Not only will this work more effectively, but it will show sincerity when you are trying to win their affections, instead of turning them off from you.
An option to consider is to not be available to your ex-mate as much as they would like you to be. Often times, relationships that don’t end in peace lead to the desire to pull away and to stop talking to the person. However, many ex-mate’s will start conversing again reminiscing of those casual times of togetherness and other smaller “cues” that still show affection. Not being as available for your ex-mate and getting away is an effective mind game in making them come to honest terms of whether they still love you.
The ability to get distance from your ex partner does two things. It helps have a perspective between both sides so the truth can be revealed about how you feel about each other. For instance, taking care of your health, looks, hobbies and other personal ideals can help you to feel better after a relationship break up. If you are still in touch with your ex-mate, it may also make them realize what they’re missing, which draws them back to you. Even if you’re with an ex-mate, there’s nothing that works better to win them back then to show you’re still confident, personable and independent.
Not only does this provide you with a better outlook, but allows the relationship to ascend to a higher level. While going through these phases, you don’t want to plead or beg to get your partner back and you don’t want to seem desperate. Part of getting your relationship back together comes from the ability to re-attract your ex-mate to you. Allowing their minds to see they still want to be with you through taking care of your own needs, provides you with a simple way to eventually win back their affection.
If you are going through a break up and want to change the results, then you can begin looking into different ways to “play your cards”. Using mind games that enhance your own life, while creating a re-attraction from your partner is a simple way to move the relationship back to the starting point. You can easily create a new beginning with intimacy and a new outlook with the potential to re-build your relationship.
For more psychological techniques and non-manipulative mind-games that strengthen love, Matt Huston has two programs I highly recommend for both men and women. Men need to check out Train Your Girlfriend and women need to check out Get Him Back Forever.